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MilSpouse Profile: Starlett Henderson or “Star” (like up in the sky)

This month we were given assignments at Loving A Soldier, because it was Military Appreciation Month and most of us are military spouses who were honored by Military Spouse Appreciation Day mid-month. Our assignments were to profile spouses who inspired us and then profile ourselves. My part 1 was a celebration of milspouse trailblazers Kathie…

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Kristen - May 31, 2013 - 1:15 pm

Star,

I loved your profile interview! Because the questions are so much fun, and because I just love talking about Ian, I thought I’d give it a shot. :)

Name:
Kristen
How long have you been with your service member:

In the soul-matey way, since we were 17. In the more traditional sense, since about three weeks before he left for Iraq in 2003. (Married since June 2005.)

We met in high school. Ian’s father was in the military, and I was the child of a GS-12 working at Campbell Barracks in Heidelberg when Ian moved to the area and ended up in my senior-year English class. He would sit in the back in his Drover jacket, the kind that would probably not be appreciated these days but that was pretty cool back then (for metal-heads).

He was tall, and he had dark hair and blue eyes. My crush was pretty immediate, but my confidence left something to be desired, so I slipped secret admirer notes into his locker. Eventually, he coaxed me (with a rather rude note written in pencil on his locker door) to reveal myself and we’ve been best friends ever since.

Your favorite duty station:

Rochester, NY, unless the Guard counts (he’s now in the National Guard), in which case CT.

Connecticut is gorgeous and close to so many great cities.

Your most challenging duty station:

Ft. Rucker, AL. Muggy, hot, black-widowy, and muggy. And hot.

What most inspires you:

Kindness.

If you could go back and tell your new-to-Army-life self any piece of advice, what would it be?

I was never really “new” to Army life, so I don’t know that I can answer this. I grew up in Germany – was there from age 7 to age 19 – and military people were everywhere (one of whom became my first husband). But for those who are new to it, I’d probably say to have fun with it. Try to get what you can out of the travel (and appreciate that moves are paid for), and remember that long separations (field training exercises, classes, etc.) can be good. Most couples don’t get the kind of needed breaks military couples get. :)

Share a favorite blog or website that inspires, helps or entertains you:

I loooove Duffelblog.com. I think they’re even better than The Onion.

Kristen Tsetsi
Founder of Like it for TIME (bridging the gap between military and civilian families http://likeitfortime.com)
Author of Pretty Much True…, a novel inspired by my husband’s Iraq deployment

Malori Fuchs - June 1, 2013 - 1:22 am

Star, I especially like your paragraph about stars! And I’ve always thought your name was pretty cool. :)

Inside This “Actor’s Studio”

I thought I’d have a bit of fun with my blog this month. At home it’s Oscar Month. That just means Oscar Night is behind us, and I now have a list of movies to add to Netflix this month. I am especially behind this year. I still haven’t seen any of the Best Picture…

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Starlett Henderson - March 2, 2013 - 3:32 pm

What profession other than your own would you like to attempt? You’d think I’d say acting, but nope. Guess you’ll have to read to find out more.

Tara Crooks - March 3, 2013 - 9:48 pm

What is your favorite word? Empower – there is nothing like helping someone be empowered or feeling empowered yourself.
What is your least favorite word? Can’t – It really bothers me when I hear myself say “can’t” or when someone says they “can’t do something”.
What turns you on? Humble confidence – yes, that sounds odd but someone confident in who they are but not arrogant.
What turns you off? Selfishness and disrespect of others.
What is your favorite curse word? I didn’t think we could say that here?
What sound or noise do you love? The sound of my girls laughing. The sound of the sign my dog makes at night as he sleeps.
What sound or noise do you hate? Throwing up.
What profession other than your own would you like to attempt? News anchor
What profession would you not like to do? Anything on DIRTY JOBS! :)
If Heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the Pearly Gates? “Man, you were rotten, but I forgive you.”

Starlett Henderson - March 4, 2013 - 2:11 am

Now wasn’t that fun?

Emily Grace - March 4, 2013 - 7:32 am

What is your favorite word? Poppycock.
What is your least favorite word? Stupid.
What turns you on? The FDNY. (What? It’s true.)
What turns you off? Rudeness,
What is your favorite curse word? Muthaf’n. (The long version, though…)
What sound or noise do you love? Matthew’s reaction when I scare him. It’s probably my favorite thing, and it makes me laugh EVERY TIME.
What sound or noise do you hate? Crying. Don’t emote in public, for crying out loud. (Well, unless it’s tears of appreciation. That only makes me slightly uncomfortable.)
What profession other than your own would you like to attempt? Army PAO. Really. I would love to take pictures for the Army.
What profession would you not like to do? Being a waitress. I just need one person to cop an attitude with me…
If Heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the Pearly Gates? “You made it!”

Janet McIntosh - March 4, 2013 - 12:43 pm

I wanted to be an actress and that would definitely be my second career if I quit teaching, lol. Oh and I was 3-3 mam – can I please keep my 50% title!! LOL – Love ya mommas!! :)

Janet McIntosh - March 4, 2013 - 12:49 pm

What is your favorite word? Right now, it is Awesome Sauce (I guess that is 2 words, LOL).
What is your least favorite word? HATE – I would have to agree with Star on this one.
What turns you on? Vin Diesel – Oh yeah! My man! lol
What turns you off? Inflated Egos
What is your favorite curse word? Probably the “F” word – I know, I know – bad Janet!
What sound or noise do you love? When my son laughs – cutest laugh!
What sound or noise do you hate? The sound of throwing up – ugh!
What profession other than your own would you like to attempt? Actress
What profession would you not like to do? Hotel Maid – I hate cleaning, LOL. Totally respect people in this job, cause I would be miserable.
If Heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the Pearly Gates? You did outstanding Janet! You were a help to others and you gave of yourself freely and made a difference in the world. Job well done! :)

Starlett Henderson - March 4, 2013 - 1:01 pm

I don’t like food service either.

Starlett Henderson - March 4, 2013 - 1:04 pm

Our whole family loves Vin Diesel (in Pacifier and Iron Giant). I just added “Find Me Guilty” (2006) to my NetFlix list, because I heard it was one of his best serious movies. Have you seen it?

Starlett Henderson - March 4, 2013 - 1:06 pm

I thought you picked three winners and three losers. The “3″ I was referring to was Best Picture, Actor, and Actress, so I thought you were 2/3 on those and I was 0/3.

Tara Crooks - March 4, 2013 - 1:38 pm

Oooohhh Pppycock!

Tara Crooks - March 4, 2013 - 1:39 pm

Vin = yummy!

Tara Crooks - March 4, 2013 - 1:39 pm

I almost said my fav word was nutmeat just to make you laugh…:

Janet McIntosh - March 4, 2013 - 9:45 pm

I have not seen it because I heard it was his worst movie and I couldn’t stand to see him with hair on his head, LOL.

Janet McIntosh - March 4, 2013 - 9:47 pm

I called it on animated movie too – Brave won as I predicted!! CLAN MCINTOSH!! LOL :)

Starlett Henderson - March 5, 2013 - 1:06 pm

I’ll let you know what I think.

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